THE SCARS: SAYING NO TO "PITY PARTY"

Pity party is a  way of experiencing grief, in which you spend
your time feeling sorry for yourself and whining
endlessly about how crappy your life is.
Pity parties can be just for one or for many
people, such as maybe your friends and close
people, who will try to comfort you or just be there
for you while you keep asking yourself what did
you do to deserve whatever it is that made you so
sad in the first place
Pity Parties require the proper outfit, which is
usually pajamas cause you dont get all dressed
up during those feeling-sorry-for-myself
moments. Also you should have no make up on or
just the one from the night before; hair undone as
well.
It also involves tissues, comfort food such as ice
cream; chocolate; potato chips; cookies; cake; and
candy. Low fat food is banned
Alcohol might or might not be allowed (if alcohol
makes you go wild, no alcohol should be brought
to the pity party in that case since the point is not
exactly to have fun). The purpose of a Pity Party
is to dump the pity
Music is also very important at pity parties,
including songs like "One is the Loneliest
Number", "All by Myself" and any other song that
makes you feel like throwing yourself from the
nearest cliff. I have come to stop you from your continuous whining.

You have got to come out from that depression, put on the best clothe, take up that new career, hobby and become useful to yourself and those around you. Truth is, when people say sorry today for your loss, they may not say it again tomorrow, you know why, everyone is caught up in his or her own drama, nobody gives a damn about yours. Theirs is hard enough and people are tired of hearing about your sorry story. And if you continue to indulge in your pity party, people avoid you because you exude negative, depressive energy. One word is use to describe you.."pathetic". Truth is living with my scars, I have learnt never to accept the pity party. You will be stuck on your problems and can never defeat them. You have got be the light in your dark situations. Your smiles should make a dark day bright. Are you going through that loss or pain that feels like you can run into the nearest car in motion or jump over a cliff? Take a deep breath...inhale and exhale...when you are done, close your eyes, picture yourself in a cool serene environment, filled with beautiful flowers, waves crashing, when you open your eyes smile broadly and you will discover that everything is going to be alright...The pity party is over, now pick up a task that is abandoned or feels impossible to complete and finish it. Thanks for reading...,stand above your scars.