Wednesday 13 July 2016

TIME HEALS ALL SCARS

I believe time heals all wounds. Along with the positives life brings, life also has many hardships and much pain, but with time, healing will come. There are some experiences in my life that I found this to be true. These are times I thought I would never be as happy as I was before the incident took place, but eventually, I healed and was able to move on with my life and be just as happy as I previously was. Scars can be emotionally and psychologically  traumatising. Before the fire incident,  when I walk on the road and I am being stared at,  I always felt good because I knew I was being admired but after the incident,  I was not so sure anymore.  I can't  tell if I am stared at out of admiratio, pity or curiosity. Therr were times when I wish I could just hide forever. One thing that gives me comfort is the fact that I was not born with the scars.  So I knew that with time,  I will desperately look for the scars and will not find any.... Time Heals All Scars.  Now let me tell you... The thing about scars are it passes away with time.  Just as the pains that come with it lessens and eventually disappears,  so is the memory of the incident that caused the scars.  This is for real... Recently I was asked to tell the story of how the fire accident occurred,  after going down three to four lines,  I realize that I have unconsciously  omitted something's.  I went back again trying to recur what was left out.  Telling the story no longer brought tears to my eyes as it used to.  Time is healing me and the memories of my pains are becoming foggy. There were times when I wondered if I would be able to do things normal people do,  go to places normal people go and achieve those goals I set for myself... But with time,  for every breaking of a new day,  I see that the possibility for greatness,  for fulfillment and achievement are endless.  The scars cannot stop me from living am happy fulfilling life. 


 There is no limitation to the heights I can reach.  I don't  know what your scar story is.  I don't  know how devastated and depress you are as a result of that scar.  What I know and can tell you is, give it time... Yes give it some time....Time heals all scars... With time the memories of the pain,  sleeplessness,  endless torture,  trauma... All passes away... It totally disappears.... I watch my face,  each day I look at it,  I am reminded by the fact that the doctor said my eyebrows are gone with the fire,. That I was only going to be drawing pencil on my brows for the rest of my life... Guess what?  Time proved him wrong.  The hairs on my eyebrows are grown and are still growing,  even better than before the incident.  Dear readers, I don't know that problem that you have being told that there is no solution to it... All the scars that look threatening,  painful,  traumatising and seems to be going nowhere... I have come to tell you to have a little faith in yourself and in God and give it time... 
Looking back on all these experiences, I realize none of them are as big of a deal as I thought they were at one point. When each of these events happened, the pain was so strong; it was hard to believe things would ever get better. However, sure enough, with time I am healing and have grown to believe that time heals all Scars. 
I promise you everything will become even better than what they used to be... Give it time... Because time heals all scars..... Thanks for reading.... Stay inspired
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