TO LADIES EATING SHIT.

Hi readers, today I am going to be directing my post to the ladies who eats shit. When I say shit, I mean the solid excretory substance that comes out of the bowels, I am referring to feces.
What is the white man's shit worth to ladies who have condescended to eagerly eating it. My post originated from a video that went viral online few days ago. A lady was seen opening her mouth and a white man was releasing heavy shits into her mouth. She tries to puke but held on like her life depended on eating the shits. I ask again what is the white man's feces worth to these ladies. Will it solve their problems for life and they will never lack...I mean what will make a human become dog to eat the feces of another human? Most ladies have become the object of ridicule by some men because of their quest for quick money. Why work so hard and earn little when they just need to stoop low once or twice and make it big. Many come online, flaunting expensive hair, cars, clothes, bags and shoes after consuming shit. You envy them...you ask yourself, am I cursed that I cannot make it big? No you are not cursed, you just will not ever eat the shit of a fellow human for few thousands and in less than few months, you will be finding more money.
Ladies, money isn't anything, even the bible says a good name is better than riches. It is just a matter of time, I know it can be hard, the society oppresses those without money and you are willing to do anything to make money and oppress the society. But am saying hold on! Give it time...with your dignity intact, virtue and self esteem continue to hustle in a dignifying way, one day it will payoff because there is always that appointed time for everyone. That time when you will forget your days of pain and laugh like one who has never been in pain. No matter how tough today looks, it is better than yesterday And the day before yesterday and the day before the day before yesterday. It can only get better with the passage of time. For those who have consumed human excretes to become big girls and live large, now is never too late to reclaim your dignity by desisting from such means of earning money and earning in a dignified way. The way that you can proudly tell the world what you do for a living without shame or regret. Something you can brag about to your kids in the nearest future. It is never too late to reclaim your dignity as long as you are alive.
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LIKE A FOOL

Have you ever wanted something you know you can't have? Like a fool, you just keep pursuing with just a tiny bit of hope that you might get just what you want. You know what you want does not want you but you keep on holding on just because you want and is blinded by your own selfish desires. I have been in situations where I lost someone that wants and needs me so bad because I was chasing after someone that has no need for me. It is my biggest regret, sometimes I wish I can go back in time and change it all...by wanting the person that wants me and letting go of he that has no need of me. But time waits for no man, he who wanted me, has gone to where he is wanted and appreciated, as I live in regret, I must learn to forgive myself by not making this mistake.
You go through heartbreak and rejection because you keep holding on to what does not need you. You are a beggar, begging for love, for care and attention when there is someone begging you to allow him show you care, love and attention. Like a fool, we think that person we show some love to us eventually but what we fail to realise is that the heart wants what it wants...
Like a fool, all by yourself, you do the calling, the texting and the planning...when he says yes to you, you feel like you just own the world. One word of kindness and sweetness sends your heart racing like a fool. You are the perfect friend, buddy and person to while away the time in a boring day but you are just not good enough to bear his name and kids.

Like a fool, we cry, hate, love , suffer and just don't know how to walk away.

When someone love you, you feel their energy on you, the care, the concern and want is fierce...like a deep penetration, you can't escape them. Like they are everywhere you go. I don't want to be like a fool in love anymore....you shouldn't be that fool anymore. Find your strength, you deserve to be happy, to be cared for and loved. Find your strength and let go of what doesn't need you or value you. One sided love is painful. When like a fool you love all by yourself....it hurts....be brave and let that abusive love go.
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A MAN'S SILENCE IS SPEECH

I have often seen my fellow ladies cry about how their men never told them he was not interested in them anymore. I see them taken unawares,  countless mind games used on them and still they keep waiting,  saying " he will say it,  if he doesn't want me anymore". You want something serious as a woman,  he just wants to have fun,  hang out and move on. When he declines your invitation to visit your family,  you say he didn't tell you he is not serious.
I am saying men are talking even when they are silent. Ladies are always driven by emotions and thoughts of what they want that they don't listen to the silence of their men. In a man's silence thousand words are spoken. Ladies just need to take some time out from their busy emotions and really listen without cooking up excuses to what men silence are saying. With men, silence is not always an affirmation. If he is not saying he wants something, he probably wants nothing. But i see ladies cook up excuses even when the handwriting is boldly written on the wall. Ladies say "he is probably shy,  i just need to give him sometime,  he is probably going through problems that he can't commit to a serious relationship, or maybe he is looking for the right time to say it." In his silence thousand words have been spoken. In his silent treatment the fact that he is not just into you have been communicated. In his silence,  the golden conversation you needed to have with him concerning your future,  you just had it. A man is talking even when silent but the women aren't listening.
Ladies love to be told what they want to hear,  even when it is all lies. We just love to believe the lies and damn the truth. Fighting for the uncertainty and ignoring the certainty. Sometimes that conversation  of your life you need to have is already been given to you through his silence. How long do you intend to wait,  ignoring the truth with the excuse of "he has to say it to my face." He has said it with his silence but you just don't want to believe it.
If ladies can listen to guys silence things will end more civilly,  and less ugly.
Listen to a man's silence,  sometimes in a guy's  moment of  silence thousand words have been spoken.
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WALKING ON A THIN ROPE

The new year has come. We have made new resolutions and are determined to defy all odds and keep them. With determination not fail ourselves and those that look up to us we start the year. But like humans walking on a thin rope our steps continue to waver. Trying to find a balance with nothing to hold on to for support,  we struggle with just the determination of our minds to stay on track. Soon we see ourselves falling off the rope and landing flat on our backs. We feel like we have failed ourselves and those around us. We beat ourselves not dealing with failure with pity,  unknowingly to us,  sometimes all we need to go a hundred times forward is to take one step backward. Taking a step back should not be seen as failure rather a time to stop going too fast ahead,  pause and observe what lies in front  of you. It is a time to re-examine what caused the fall and develop a counter measure to prevent future falls. Our strength is within us...as long as we do not give up on ourselves,  God will never give up on us. Never forget to ask him for strength as we are all walking on the thin rope of life...prone to waver or fall off.
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A GOLDEN MORNING

I had a dream last night,  and in that dream I saw a very beautiful morning. The type with the perfect colour and peace.  The type I used to appreciate waking up to everyday before life became too busy. I woke up from that dream and even found a more lovelier morning... I call it the golden morning because the sun shining through the morning was the finest gold I have never seen. I forgot my wants for the day and I appreciated the beauty of the morning. Today is a new day, the morning awakens a new dawn... The beauty of the morning he's the power to make our pains fade away,  but like the blind that cannot see the beauty of the day,  we couldn't see or appreciate a golden morning. We are therefore categorised as the blinds as we are so preoccupied with the carried over troubles of yesterday, pains of last week,  that we do not see the power of the golden morning and it's peaceful effect on us... The blinds wish they can see the beautiful day,  they CAn only feel it but not see it... But we have eyes, but just cannot see and appreciate a beautiful and golden morning. Leaving the hospital, gradual healing from my scars,  I realise that being well,  complete and healthy is a gift. For everyday you see the dawning of a new day with a sound mind and in good health,  never forget to appreciate the beauty of the morning because it is a special gift, painfully, not everyone enjoys it gets to partake in this gift because some slept,  and couldn't wake up.  I congratulate you if you are among the lucky ones that partake in this golden morning. Wishing you all my readers a beautiful day. Thank you.

FEELING BEAUTIFUL IN SCARS

They say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. This is why I cannot understand how people still manage to call themselves ugly. If you love yourself(beholder) you will only see your beauty. You recall I suffered from a domestic gas explosion that left me with ugly scars. I really wish the scars could disappear. I want to just wake up one morning,  look in the mirror and find them gone but they say everything takes time. 

But whenever I hold the camera to my face for a selfie, I realize something new, a powerful emotion, the raw feeling of self love. It's me... I am madly in love with myself despite the ugly scars. I can't stop taking pictures of myself because I am  a beauty. I find myself looking pretty and the scars just don't matter anymore. The scars in defined areas of my body just makes me distinguishable and unique. I feel this sense of appreciation for myself despite the scars... I still see beauty and care that was put in creating me despite the scars. 

Dear readers,  I am saying the power of imagery cannot be understated.  What you see,  decides how you feel. If you see your beauty,  your awesomeness despite your ugly scars,  then you will walk shoulder high feeling beautiful and gorgeous. The scars will not decide how you relate with yourself and the rest of the world. I see beauty whenever I look at myself.... That makes me beautiful.... What do you see about yourself today?  How do you feel?  I encourage you to see your beauty despite that ugly situation in your life... Feel beautiful despite your scars. Thank you for reading. 

 

IF TODAY WAS YOUR LAST DAY

what if today was your last day? This is the question I asked myself today. A question that reminded me that everyday should be seen as a gift not a right. Everyday is special, today is not yesterday and tomorrow can never be today. Everyday comes with something beautiful, priceless and special. What if today was your last day?  Will you spend it thinking of failed relationships? Will you spend it blaming yourself for your failures or will you look at past pictures and relish old memories?Will you listen to as much music as you can,  eat the best food, withdraw your savings and visit the best places you dreamt of?  Will you donate your last dime to the needy? Will you heal broken hearts, mend fences and forgive those who hurt you. Of today  was your last day,  what will you do? How will you live if today was your last day? Everyday is a a special gift,  cherish it and give all in for each day as it comes,  living like today is your last and tomorrow might be too late. Do not spend time worrying and mourning those things that time has the power to erase. Live for each day like there is no tommorow. Today is what you see right now,  what you have right now, please make the best of it.... And you can only if you answer the question "what if today is my last day?"
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SCARS HAPPEN WITH A SIGN

yes, scars don't  just happen. There is always a sign that accompanies that gruesome episode that is about to change your life forever.  The day of the gas explosion, I was sad and happy all through.  I did anything and everything I know trying to uplift  my mood.  For reasons I cannot tell I was worried.  I looked my best that very day. Soon,  I saw a little girl with burns on her neck. I stood for some minutes staring at her,  wondering about the magnitude of pain she must have been through. Unknowingly to me,  that I was going to suffer from same fate,  in few hours time. The fire happened and it was serious. The endless nightmares before the incident,  my sour mood that day before the accident  and the little girl with the burns on her neck was a sign.  A sign of painful and devastating times to come. Today I am saying if you feel moody,  sad and worried for no concrete reason,  do not take it for granted, just go on your knees and pray. Pray for God's protection in your next moments.  That unforeseen evil hour, pray for the salvation of your soul.  The signs comes but we do not understand,  but when we pray,  we will definitely survive the evil hour.  Thanks for reading.

MY SCARS AND THE WORLD

You recall that i sustained scars from a domestic gas explosion. Lots of people who visited me at the hospital never thought i could make. But i did...I survived and keep thriving. Dealing with my scars, i realised that not everyone who says sorry, actually pities me. Some of them know how desperate you are to get rid of that ugly scars hence come up with strategies in the name of treatment to cheat you off your money. Yea, i experienced lots of people suddenly having something to sell themselves. A man asked my father how i was doing after the incident, my father said i was recuperating. Then he said"she has a job but is dealing with fire accident,My sons do not have a job but there are not recovering from fire. They are very ok". That is the people that uses your circumstances to console themselves. Also some friends came to the hospital to see me, after seeing how monstrous i looked at the early stage of the incident, they said "you are not married and now you look like this, we that are ok and good looking finds it difficult to get married". They are simply telling me that i have no hope.
The last but not the least set of persons are those who wants you to blame it all on the scars. A friend of mine said "Ijeoma you would have being married if not for the accident". She wanted me to blame my singlehood on my scars. Entertaining such feeling can only make you see rejection where there is none. You suddenly see yourself wallowing in the depth of depressio  and frustration. You feel like a loser, unable to see anyrhing good about yourself. You fail, you blame it on the scars, people who ordinarily are meant to come and go, when they walk away, you see yourself blaming it on the scars.
What i am saying is, majority of world people loves to see you in pain. They ignore you when everything is fine and pretends to be your friend when everything is bad. Then they use your situation to console themselves, rubbing it on you, that their lives are so much better than yours. If only you will not concentrate on what the world says about your challenges, rather you find strength in your weaknesses by facing your worst fears and overcoming it. Thank you for reading.

WHEN THE THUNDER RUMBLES

The human race have become very desperate and cruel. People do all sorts of things to be feared and powerful. They make plans and strategise how to overtake and undertake. Ordinary human beings playing God by means of deciding the fate of their fellow humans. They believe no one can challenge them. They call themselves mighty, great and fearless. These are same humans that goes to bed, while asleep they do not know where they are. When they fall asleep they can't tell, When they wake up, they still don't know how they got up. They sleep like they are dead and do not know how they manage to wake up. These same humans brag and boast about their tomorrow. Making endless plans for even five years to come, not knowing if they will sleep and wake up the next day. They live like they own their lives.
When the thunder rumbles, the earth shakes to its depth, unconsciously, the human race stares upward, to the sky and the heavens and they are minded that there is someone mightier than the mighty, greater than the great. The almighty, the owner of the heavens and the earth...The owner of the entire human race....God almighty. When the thunder rumbles everyone is silent, still and realises that there is God. Everything is abandoned by the humans and there is fear and awe at the sound of the rumbling thunder. When thunder rumbles, the human race should never forget that there is God.